Today I want to share with you
the most valuable piece of advice I have ever received as a Rotarian. This
simple quote genuinely helped me through a few challenges a little while ago,
and I only wish I had have received it many, many years earlier. It has helped my decision making process as a district leader, but it can also be of
use all Rotarians who are trying to move this great organisation forward, and
in your non-Rotary lives as well.
So, what was that piece of advice that I found so
helpful at a challenging time? What are these words of wisdom?
Don’t
water your weeds. I guess some may find this quote a little cryptic,
but as soon as I heard those words, they immediately resonated.
This is the time of year we often
hear club presidents comment that they are only now getting into the swing of
things and feeling confident in the role, and of course now they only have a
few months remaining before someone else steps up. “It would have been nice to
know at the start of the year what I now know as president.” Take it from me, a
three year posting in my role is no different, and as the end to my tenure
approaches, I now have plenty of advice that I’d love to send back in time to
myself three years ago. But I guess that’s life. It’s one big learning curve.
That’s why I think it’s important to pass on this one piece of advice to those
who will be at the forefront of our membership struggles for the years to come.
I guess the crux of the matter is
that we have to pick our battles. At the moment our Aussie cricketers are in
India learning (sometimes the hard way) which ball to leave. It’s the same in
life. I came into this role with a load of energy and good intentions, and some
bold ideas about what clubs needed to do to attract and retain more members. I
was slashing my bat at every ball that came my way. No doubt about it, I have
certainly learnt a lot in this role in three years. I have been fortunate to
have rubbed shoulders with some great Rotary minds and have acquired some good
tips. But to be frank, it has always been about change that isn’t happening. Resistance to change has been my constant battle. Prior to my current district role, I spent three years as an assistant
governor, and another two years prior to that as district TRF grants chair. It
didn’t take me long to work out that district appointments are primarily about
leading horses to water. No matter how hard you
try, no matter how cool and refreshing the water, you just can’t make horses
drink.
The thing about weeds is that
they don’t need watering. They will grow on their own by sucking the nutrients
and moisture from the soil that your (desired) plants need. In the same way, I’ve
seen perennially (membership) challenged clubs suck the enthusiasm out of not
only their own members, but the district leaders who try in vain to
turn things around. That’s why I feel district leaders need to triage clubs
from a membership development perspective. There will be clubs at the healthy
end of the scale that do not need urgent attention, likewise there will be
clubs at the terminal end of the scale that are either beyond help, or as is
often the case, refuse to accept it. Some patients won’t recover from major
surgery, even when it's the only option. Priority must be given to
those clubs that need AND ARE WILLING TO ACCEPT help, and have a reasonable
prospect of recovery. To do anything else is merely watering weeds. Clubs WILL
shrivel and die. We need to accept that and move on, applying our most precious
resource: TIME, to where it can do the most good. And that’s really what this
blog is about – the productive use of our time and energy as leaders. Because
each of us has only a finite amount.
I do want to be crystal clear on this, we need to make ourselves and other membership resources available to all clubs, of all shapes and sizes, everywhere. But it's got to be a two way street. They've got to be fair dinkum about it, and they must understand that the type of thinking that got them into the membership doldrums will not get them out if them. Most will want the situation to change, but only few are prepared to MAKE CHANGES in order to bring it about. In some cases an entire new plan of attack needs creating. Sometimes it’s
just about pointing out existing Rotary documents that are available online,
sometimes it’s about visiting clubs and presenting a different viewpoint on the
topic, and sometimes it’s just about having a chat with a few members over a
coffee. But there comes a time with some clubs, that the banging of heads
against brick walls just has to stop. It’s a story I can tell over and over
again of clubs at which maintaining the status quo has become paramount. When the
prospect of handing in a charter is not seen as the worst case scenario, but
the lesser of two evils compared with the other option which involves being dragged
kicking and screaming out of the comfort zone, it’s time to move on. If it sounds callous, I’ll cop
it. But if by letting those clubs drift into oblivion, you free up the energy
and passion to fight for and work with the clubs that genuinely need and will
respond to help, it’s the right thing to do.
There’s a little known fact
regarding the inception of the Rotary Club of Seaford, the club I built from
thin air and joined last November at its charter night. In October 2014 I
was asked by our then district governor to speak with members of a small,
membership challenged club in the same region. This club, which I will refer to
as the Rotary Club of Next Door, has hovered between 6 and 8 members for as
long as I can remember. I was of course very keen to have that conversation,
and was ready, willing and able to help. But I have always stuck by a steadfast
rule since taking on the role of district membership chair; I will only go
where I’m invited. If any club wants help, they need simply ask. But I have
never, and will never try to force help upon a club. I made this clear to the
DG in question, and he fully expected I would get a phone call from the Rotary
Club of Next Door within days. Again, that was October 2014.
In anticipation of that call, I
started researching the demographics of the region so as to be fully prepared
to help that club, but as a result of that research, I noticed the massive
population growth in nearby Seaford, a region totally devoid of service clubs.
That realisation was the spark that lit the Seaford flame within me, and two
years (and one hell of a lot of work) later, the Seaford club was chartered
with 21 members. Four months later, we have 26 members.
It is now two years and five
months since I was told to expect a phone call from The Rotary Club of Next
Door. That phone call never came and instead my watering can has spent a good deal of time
a few miles away in Seaford, and at a number of other clubs in the district where
it has been appreciated.